Polite Language
In the video, the speaker says
Unlike lots of other languages in the world, English doesn’t have a formal structure built into the language that helps you to speak politely. You have actually got to learn what to say and how to say it.
Think and Discuss
How about in your language(s)? Do they have formal structures built into the language? Can you describe them?
How do you sound polite in your language? Do you use intonation in the same way?
Compare to American Culture
Some people think that Americans sound too polite when they make a request. Others think they don’t sound polite enough. What do you think?
How do you feel about sounding polite in English? Is it easy for you to sound polite? Have you ever been misunderstood? What did you do?
Here are some expressions you can use:
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Giving your opinion |
So I think… It seems to me… In my experience/country/family… |
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Checking |
Do you mean….? Are you asking…? Are you talking about…? |
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Thinking time |
Hmmmmm… Let me think (about that). I’m not really sure… I haven’t really thought about that before. |
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Complimenting |
That’s a good question. Good point. |
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Choosing not to answer |
(change the subject) I could use a cup of coffee! Hmm, that’s a little personal. I’d rather not talk about that. |
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Involving other people |
What do you think? How about you? |