Discussion Strategies: Agreeing and Disagreeing
People often agree and disagree in conversation. In English, there are many ways to agree and disagree. Some phrases are casual, which means you use them with friends. Other phrases are more formal.
Agreeing
Phrases for casual agreeing
- Yeah
- Yep
- Ditto
- Totally
- For sure
Phrases for formal agreeing
- I agree
- I'm with you on this one
- That's a good point
- I see
- True
Body language for agreeing (you can do any or all of these):
- Smile
- Nod “yes”
- Lean forward
- Clap hands one time
Disagreeing
Phrases for casual disagreeing (can be a little rude)
- I don’t think so.
- No way.
- Are you kidding me?
- Are you sure about that?
- Seriously?
Phrases for formal disagreeing
- Well...
- I see where you're coming from, but...
- That's a good point, but...
- I see things a little differently...
- I'd like to share another point of view...
Body language for disagreeing (you can do any or all of these)
- Nod “no”
- Lean backward
- Put hand(s) up like you’re saying “stop”
Example discussion: casual
Student 1: Have you heard about the new Taylor Swift album? It’s awesome.
Student 2: Are you kidding me? It’s the worst thing I’ve ever heard.
Student 1: No way! You don’t like Taylor Swift?
Student 2: No one in their right mind likes Taylor Swift. She’s awful.
Student 1: I don’t think so. I think you’re crazy.
Student 2: Whatever. Have you seen the new Spiderman movie?
Student 1: Yeah, I liked it.
Student 2: Ditto.
Example discussion: formal
Student 1: I think we should have more homework.
Student 2: More homework?
Student 1: If we have more homework, we’ll learn faster.
Student 2: I see where you’re coming from, but I don’t want more homework. I want to enjoy my free time.
Student 1: That’s a good point, but we are here to learn English.
Student 2: Well, true, but I am also young. I want to relax sometimes.
Student 1: That’s a good point. Maybe we have enough homework.
Student 2: I agree.
Exercise
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